The busyness of the Holiday season can leave us feel mentally and emotionally drained. Despite the fact that we are doing things for our families, it can be difficult to find some alone time for you and your partner. That yearning that you feel is not to be avoided. Nurture it through getting what you need from your partner. It may seem like you are being pulled in many different directions, it’s still possible to keep your relationship fresh. Intimacy is defined as an intimate act or closeness. So often when we think of intimacy, we think of physical intimacy. Though physical intimacy is important, there are many other forms of intimacy to explore. Here are some different types of intimacy to ponder and engage in with your partner this Holiday season:
Aesthetic Intimacy: This intimacy is cultivated through the sharing experiences such as beauty, music, nature art, theater or dance. Think about it– how special is it when someone shares with you their favorite song? Date ideas could be listening to music, going for a walk, catching a concert or play.
Communication intimacy: Strong relationships are built on communication. Communication involves listening to and valuing your partner’s ideas in a loving, compassionate, respectful manner. It may seem too easy to have surface level conversations. Try to set aside a time each day for you and your partner to just talk.
Parenting intimacy: Do you have children? Parenting intimacy may be a good way to incorporate all members of your family. When we build intimacy through parenting, we share in the responsibility of raising children by caring for thier physical, emotional and spiritual needs. Plan little surprises for each other: In your conversations, get to know your partner
Physical Intimacy: We all know this one. It’s time to get close! Physical intimacy includes being close and sharing through physical touch. Spending time really enjoying your physical relationship and being open and honest with one another about your needs and desires.
Work Intimacy: Work intimacy involves coming together to complete a task. It is possible to experiences closeness through sharing common household duties like yard work, housekeeping, and other areas such as working outside the home and participating in community activities.
Humor intimacy: When we are operating in humor intimacy, we are sharing through laughing together. Having inside jokes between the two of you is so special. Enjoy making each other laugh and look for the funny side in life. Spending each other memes, going to a comedy show, or snuggling on the couch streaming a comedy special could be the perfect low key, lighthearted date night.
Making time for each other is such an important part of a partnership. End your year cozy with these intimacy ideas. It doesn’t have to be complicated or stressful. Just have fun and get close to the one you love. I can’t wait to see what you choose. Report back to the comments to let me know your favorite way to get close.